Podcasts

Thumbnail Narcissistic Relations 21 Mazzella

Exploring the care of narcissistic relationships: anti-relating vs Genuine discovery and acceptance

Takeaways Self-other differentiation is critical in understanding narcissistic relationships. Narcissistic relationships thrive when narcissistic needs are met. The preference for illusion over reality can lead to destructive dynamics. Embracing differences […]

Read More
Thumbnail Treating the Narcissist 20 Mazzella

Treating narcissism: how to deal with a narcissist

In this episode, we discuss how to relate to a narcissist in your life without sacrificing your own well-being. We explore the dynamics of dealing with constant accusations, suspicion and […]

Read More
Thumbnail Two Causes of Anxiety 19 Mazzella

Two “Narcissistic” Causes of Anxiety and a Psychodynamics Treatment Approach

This episode explores the links between anxiety and narcissism. It begins by discussing shame stress and the inner critical (angry) voice as significant causes of anxiety. The conversation then delves […]

Read More
Thumbnail Anxiety and Aggression for Trailer 18 Mazzella

Anxiety and aggression: an exploration of the link between anxiety and aggression

In this episode, we explore the connection between perfectionism and anxiety, highlighting how the inner critical voice fuels feelings of inadequacy and fear of judgment. I discuss the role of […]

Read More
Thumbnail Anxiety get in Control 17 Mazzella

How to take charge of your anxiety: a psychodynamic approach

In this episode, we explore the complex relationship between anxiety and shame stress. I highlight how shame stress often goes undetected and untreated in individuals dealing with narcissism. The manifestations […]

Read More
Thumbnail Positive Parenting Solutions 16 Mazzella

Parenthood and parenting problems: establishing the bond

In this episode, we tackle common parental challenges like tantrums, defiance, and risky behavior. Traditional solutions often fall short, but by understanding the underlying causes—the impact of affective misattunement and […]

Read More
Thumbnail Depression or Narc Deflation 15 Mazzella

Is it Depression…or Narcissist Deflation?

In this episode I explore the concept of narcissistic deflation and its potential misdiagnosis as depression. I highlight the importance of detecting and properly treating narcissistic deflation, which often goes […]

Read More
Why Chaos and Conflict are NOT the Problem 14 Mazzella

Why do i think and act in such extremes?

In this episode, Dr. Mazzella explores techniques for overcoming ‘all or nothing’ thinking and behaviors. He addresses a listener’s question about healing fragmented selves. The conversation explores the concept of […]

Read More
Thumbnail Chaos The Narc or the Borderlin 13 Mazzella

Are Dr. Mazella’s treatment strategies effective? listener questions & experiences

In this episode, Dr. Anthony Mazzella responds to listener questions, delving into topics such as coping with chaos in life and distinguishing between borderline and narcissistic traits. He explores a […]

Read More
Thumbnail The Need for Chaos 12 Mazzella

Why the need to create chaos & conflict?

In this episode, Dr. Anthony Mazzella explores why narcissists need to create chaos. He describes the manifestations of this behavior and delves into the psychological reasons behind it. Dr. Mazzella […]

Read More

Book Telehealth Visit

I regret to inform you that I do not accept insurance and I am not participating with any insurance companies at this time. Payment for services rendered will be the responsibility of the patient directly. I apologize for any inconvenience this may cause. More information about financing can be found on this page.

* All indicated fields must be completed.
Please include non-medical questions and correspondence only.

Accessibility Toolbar

Scroll to Top