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Meet Anthony Mazzella, Ph.D.
Psychotherapist And Psychoanalyst In New York City With Close To 20 Years Of Experience.
Anthony Mazzella, Ph.D., is a psychoanalyst and psychotherapist in private practice on the Upper East Side of Manhattan. He is a training analyst and full member at the Institute for Psychoanalytic Training & Research (IPTAR), as well as being a current member of The International Psychoanalytic Association (IPA). Membership in the IPA is restricted to psychoanalysts who fulfill the most rigorous and recognized international standards for psychoanalytic training in the world. Dr. Mazzella is both a Fellow of the IPA and at IPTAR. Dr. Mazzella is on faculty and is a supervisor at IPTAR and the Metropolitan Institute for Training in Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy (MITPP). He is also recognized by the New York State Education Department’s State Board for Social Work as an approved provider of continuing education.
“My mission is to build a trusting relationship that will allow you to gain insight into your inner life and behaviors so you can make more deliberate choices and therefore lead a more fulfilling life…”
- Dr. Mazzella
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Why Choose Dr. Mazzella?
Dr. Mazzella is an NYC-based psychotherapist and psychoanalyst with over 20 years of clinical experience. He trained at the renowned Institute for Psychoanalytic Training and Research (IPTAR) with continued involvement with the organization to this day. He believes psychodynamic therapy to be an essential component of psychological work, benefiting individuals from all walks of life.
Dr. Mazzella believes that psychodynamic psychotherapy is effective for those dealing with overwhelming emotions. One of the benefits of his approach is that it helps to create a safe and trusting relationship, which is particularly helpful for learning new coping skills and strategies to manage your problems. By exploring your thoughts and feelings, you’ll gain a deeper understanding of what might be causing your problems. As you work through these emotions in a supported environment, you’ll feel more able to tackle them on your own.
Dr. Mazzella works with a wide range of individuals (e.g., adolescents, adults, and couples) to address a variety of emotional difficulties, such as interpersonal problems, self-esteem issues, depression, anxiety, and personality disorders. Dr. Mazzella’s approach focuses on insight-oriented psychodynamic therapy, emphasizing exploration of past and present experiences. For a deeper understanding of how Dr. Mazzella thinks about psychology and works with his patients, please click on any of his latest articles below.
If you’re looking for a compassionate and skilled therapist to help you navigate life’s challenges, please contact Dr. Anthony Mazzella. His years of experience and superb training have equipped him to be a leading psychotherapist and psychoanalyst.
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When Codependency Turns Toxic: Unpacking Hidden Dynamics 🧠
Is codependency ever not toxic? Or does it subtly shift into manipulation when the need for constant reassurance takes over? In this episode, we explore the darker side of codependency — when seeking support turns into a quiet demand for control, and vulnerability becomes a tool for emotional supply.
What drives these behaviors? And how can we recognize when care turns into control? Let’s dive into the complexities of these hidden dynamics.
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/
#Codependency #ToxicRelationships #EmotionalManipulation #NarcissismDecoded #SelfAwareness #HealingJourney #PodcastEpisode #DrAnthonyMazzella #NarcissisticDynamics #MentalHealthAwareness #RelationshipPatterns
When Codependency Turns Toxic: Unpacking Hidden Dynamics 🧠
Is codependency ever not toxic? Or does it subtly shift into manipulation when the need for constant reassurance takes over? In this episode, we explore the darker side of codependency — when seeking support turns into a quiet demand for control, and vulnerability becomes a tool for emotional supply.
What drives these behaviors? And how can we recognize when care turns into control? Let’s dive into the complexities of these hidden dynamics.
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/
#Codependency #ToxicRelationships #EmotionalManipulation #NarcissismDecoded #SelfAwareness #HealingJourney #PodcastEpisode #DrAnthonyMazzella #NarcissisticDynamics #MentalHealthAwareness #RelationshipPatterns
Connection Over Correction: Healing Parent-Child Relationships
❓ When a child is aggressive or hostile, should you still be their safe place? What about when that child becomes an adult—do you confront a narcissistic parent about their behavior?
In this episode, we dive into the power of connection over correction and why children (and even adults) need emotional safety more than discipline. We also explore the complex reality of addressing narcissistic traits in a parent, including:
🔹 The risks of confronting them directly
🔹 Why some parents may never have an "aha" moment
🔹 How to protect your own sense of identity and reality
Healing isn`t about getting them to change—it`s about understanding your own boundaries and reclaiming your emotional space.
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/
#NarcissisticParent #ChildhoodTrauma #EmotionalSafety #ParentingTips #HealingJourney #ToxicFamily #EmotionalAbuse #Gaslighting #InnerHealing #MentalHealthAwareness
Connection Over Correction: Healing Parent-Child Relationships
❓ When a child is aggressive or hostile, should you still be their safe place? What about when that child becomes an adult—do you confront a narcissistic parent about their behavior?
In this episode, we dive into the power of connection over correction and why children (and even adults) need emotional safety more than discipline. We also explore the complex reality of addressing narcissistic traits in a parent, including:
🔹 The risks of confronting them directly
🔹 Why some parents may never have an "aha" moment
🔹 How to protect your own sense of identity and reality
Healing isn`t about getting them to change—it`s about understanding your own boundaries and reclaiming your emotional space.
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/
#NarcissisticParent #ChildhoodTrauma #EmotionalSafety #ParentingTips #HealingJourney #ToxicFamily #EmotionalAbuse #Gaslighting #InnerHealing #MentalHealthAwareness
💬 “What did you just hear?” — The Question That Changes Everything in Couples Therapy
When one partner is a narcissist and the other is constantly managing their emotions, therapy can feel like walking a tightrope. 🧠💔
How do we address the abuse while keeping the conversation productive? How do we stay within the window of tolerance without reinforcing harmful dynamics?
Rather than debating what was meant, we focus on what was heard. Because in relationships, perception is reality—until we start unraveling the patterns beneath it.
🎧 Part two coming soon! But for now, listen to the full episode here:
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/
#CouplesTherapy #NarcissisticAbuse #EmotionalManipulation #WindowOfTolerance #RelationshipHealing #PsychologyOfCommunication #TheNarcissismDecoder #EmotionalResilience #ToxicRelationships #podcastepisode
💬 “What did you just hear?” — The Question That Changes Everything in Couples Therapy
When one partner is a narcissist and the other is constantly managing their emotions, therapy can feel like walking a tightrope. 🧠💔
How do we address the abuse while keeping the conversation productive? How do we stay within the window of tolerance without reinforcing harmful dynamics?
Rather than debating what was meant, we focus on what was heard. Because in relationships, perception is reality—until we start unraveling the patterns beneath it.
🎧 Part two coming soon! But for now, listen to the full episode here:
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/
#CouplesTherapy #NarcissisticAbuse #EmotionalManipulation #WindowOfTolerance #RelationshipHealing #PsychologyOfCommunication #TheNarcissismDecoder #EmotionalResilience #ToxicRelationships #podcastepisode
What Makes the Switch Flip? Unmasking the Vulnerable Narcissist 🎭
Is there a moment when everything shifts — when admiration turns to desperation, and confidence gives way to neediness? In this episode, we dive into the hidden triggers behind the "switch" in vulnerable narcissists. Using powerful examples from pop culture, like The Sopranos, we unpack how even the most grandiose personalities can crumble into dependency and emotional need.
What causes this shift? And what can we learn from these patterns in real life? Let’s explore the emotional undercurrents beneath the surface.
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/
#VulnerableNarcissist #NarcissisticPatterns #EmotionalShifts #NarcissismDecoded #SelfAwareness #PodcastEpisode #DrAnthonyMazzella #UnderstandingNarcissism #MentalHealthAwareness #RelationshipDynamics
What Makes the Switch Flip? Unmasking the Vulnerable Narcissist 🎭
Is there a moment when everything shifts — when admiration turns to desperation, and confidence gives way to neediness? In this episode, we dive into the hidden triggers behind the "switch" in vulnerable narcissists. Using powerful examples from pop culture, like The Sopranos, we unpack how even the most grandiose personalities can crumble into dependency and emotional need.
What causes this shift? And what can we learn from these patterns in real life? Let’s explore the emotional undercurrents beneath the surface.
🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/
#VulnerableNarcissist #NarcissisticPatterns #EmotionalShifts #NarcissismDecoded #SelfAwareness #PodcastEpisode #DrAnthonyMazzella #UnderstandingNarcissism #MentalHealthAwareness #RelationshipDynamics