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In this video, we explore the controversial topic of re-traumatization in therapy for individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Discover how certain therapeutic approaches may intentionally trigger unresolved trauma, exacerbating emotional instability. We’ll discuss the risks and challenges of these methods, shedding light on the complexities of treating NPD while aiming to foster healing and […]

In this episode, we delve into the concept of the “depressive position,” emphasizing the importance of recognizing and accepting loss in order to move forward in life. We explore the challenges faced by individuals with narcissistic traits in accepting differing perspectives and the emotional turmoil that can arise from this. The conversation highlights the developmental

In this video, we continue our discussion of the projection-introjection cycle, focusing on how individuals with narcissistic tendencies project their negative introjects onto others, leading them to view people as dangerous or untrustworthy. This projection distorts their perception of relationships, creating a cycle of hostile responses. We explore how, instead of seeing a ‘new person,’

In this discussion, Dr. Anthony Mazzella is responding to a question about the concept of splitting, a phenomenon common in both narcissistic and borderline personality disorders. He explains that splitting involves a rapid shift from idealizing to devaluing a partner, often triggered by perceived slights or disappointments during emotionally charged situations. This behavior stems from

In this episode, we delve into the complexities of feeling ‘stuck’ in life, particularly through the lens of depression linked to narcissistic caregivers. We look at some complicated concepts, such as the depressive position and pathological organizations, explaining how these psychological frameworks can help individuals understand their emotional struggles. The discussion emphasizes the importance of

In this discussion, we explore how parental praise can influence the development of narcissistic traits. We emphasize the importance of the type and amount of praise children receive, highlighting how overgratification and exaggerated praise can lead to a problematic sense of self-worth. We contrast this with more balanced praise that encourages children to feel proud

In this discussion, Dr. Anthony Mazzella examines the dynamics of power and validation in narcissistic relationships, particularly when one partner receives compliments from others. He explains that narcissists often perceive their partners as extensions of themselves, creating an illusion of a “blissful union” where no separation exists between the two individuals. This lack of self-other

In this video, we revisit questions posed by a listener about why people often think in extremes. We discuss a specific case involving a man who struggled with accepting positive experiences and how his upbringing with a critical grandmother and a supportive mother influenced his self-criticism and inability to embrace comfort. We explore a few

Send us a text (https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2239086/open_sms) In this episode, we explore the complex emotion of shame and its deep connection to Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). We’ll uncover how shame influences behavior, leading individuals to either retreat into isolation or lash out to protect their fragile self-esteem. Through relatable examples, we delve into the origins of shame

This discussion centers around the concept of “psychic retreat,” where individuals retreat into negative self-views as a defense mechanism. We look at how this retreat offers a sense of security by reinforcing a familiar, albeit negative, identity. The segment concludes with reflections on the challenges of self-other differentiation in individuals with personality disorders. ✅ Subscribe