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Why Do Minor Disagreements Feel Like Major Betrayals in BPD?

This video clip is from episode 52 of The Narcissism Decode podcast, where we talk about the complexities of negative projection cycles. ✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder/?sub_confirmation=1 ✅ Important Links: 👉 Website: https://www.drmazzella.com/ 👉 For consultation or seeking virtual therapy services please visit: https://www.drmazzella.com/contact/ 👉 To listen to Dr. Mazzella’s podcast […]

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What happens when admiration overshadows emotional connection? ????

This video clip is from episode 49-50 of The Narcissism Decode podcast, where we talk about the complexities of negative projection cycles. ✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder/?sub_confirmation=1 ✅ Important Links: 👉 Website: https://www.drmazzella.com/ 👉 For consultation or seeking virtual therapy services please visit: https://www.drmazzella.com/contact/ 👉 To listen to Dr. Mazzella’s podcast

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How do you challenge aggressive behaviors while fostering emotional connection?

This video clip is from episode 49-50 of The Narcissism Decode podcast, where we talk about the complexities of negative projection cycles. ✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder/?sub_confirmation=1 ✅ Important Links: 👉 Website: https://www.drmazzella.com/ 👉 For consultation or seeking virtual therapy services please visit: https://www.drmazzella.com/contact/ 👉 To listen to Dr. Mazzella’s podcast

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How Do You Maintain Your Autonomy in a Narcissistic Relationship?

In this episode, we delve into practical strategies for handling controlling dynamics, especially if you’re in a relationship with a narcissistic partner. Imagine a situation where your partner insists you follow their sleep schedule. Rather than reacting or submitting, what if you could gently assert your own needs while respecting their perspective? It’s a way

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Why Does the Narcissistic Cycle of Destruction and Self-Defense Repeat?

Dive into the complex dynamics of narcissistic personality patterns, exploring why the cycle of projection, maladaptive defenses, and aggression repeats. This video breaks down how early-life frustrations shape defensive attitudes and contribute to a fragmented sense of self. Discover insights into why those with personality disorders often perceive others as threats and struggle to integrate

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How Do We Connect With Someone?

In this video we explore how “containment” plays a crucial role in working with narcissistic behaviors. Through techniques like slowing down reactions, detoxifying aggression, and validating experiences without judgment, you can help loved ones see their own emotions more clearly. This approach fosters a (therapeutic) bond, allowing one to feel truly heard and understood, even

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How TFP Therapy Helps Treat Narcissistic Personalities

In this video, we explore Transference-Focused Psychotherapy (TFP) and its effectiveness in treating individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Learn how TFP helps patients gain insight into their distorted self-perceptions and interpersonal relationships by focusing on the dynamics between the patient and therapist, ultimately fostering emotional growth and healthier relationship patterns. This video clip is

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Why Narcissists May View You As the Enemy: The Hidden Danger

In this video, Lisa and I explore how distorted introjects—caricature-like images of self and others—lead to disjointed self-experiences, especially for individuals with narcissistic traits. We discuss how these fragmented perceptions often result in extreme emotional responses, reliance on defense mechanisms like projection, and difficulties in integrating whole, complex views of others. Narcissistic individuals tend to

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Pathological Defenses Against Loss: Grandiosity vs. Reality -3

In this episode, we delve further into the concept of the “depressive position,” particularly in relation to individuals with narcissistic characteristics. We explore the importance of relinquishing a grandiose sense of self and facing limitations, as well as the distinction between depression and the depressive position. The conversation delves into the dynamics of relationships, the

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