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In this episode, we explore how trauma and the stories we cling to can keep us stuck. From numbing behaviors to refusing to let go of the past, there are clear patterns that block transformation. But there’s also hope—because when both people commit to deep inner work, something entirely new can emerge. 🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/ ✅ […]

This video clip is from Episode 67 of The Narcissism Decoder Podcast. Could your desire to help actually be fueling a cycle of control and resentment? In some relationships, constant questioning and criticism — even when disguised as concern — can make a partner feel powerless and ashamed, pushing them toward self-destructive behaviors to reclaim

What happens when the pain of betrayal lingers long after apologies are made? In this episode, we dive into the complex emotions behind forgiveness, exploring how unresolved wounds can turn every action into a new betrayal. Can a relationship truly heal when old wounds refuse to close? 🎧 ✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More

This video clip is from Episode 64 of The Narcissism Decoder Podcast. In this episode, we challenge the idea of “happiness in aloneness” for individuals with narcissistic traits. While therapy can help manage emotions, it also facilitates a process where an empty space gets filled with genuine connection. 🧠 Key insights: 🔹 How narcissists learn

When repairing damage in relationships, saying “I’m sorry” isn’t enough. True repentance means acknowledging the lie, recognizing the pain you caused, and validating the hurt with deep empathy. It’s about committing to change so that the same mistake never happens again. But can this level of genuine accountability truly mend a relationship, or do old

Grieving the Parent You Never Had: The Hardest Step in Healing ❓ Why is setting boundaries with a narcissistic parent so painful? Because it’s not just about space—it’s about mourning the relationship that never was. In this episode, we explore: 🔹 Why healing starts with grieving the fantasy of a loving parent 🔹 The guilt

❓ When you start setting boundaries with a parent who has narcissistic tendencies, should you tell them outright—or just do it? In this episode, we break down the right timing and approach for creating healthy boundaries, including: 🔹 Why early-stage anger and grief can sabotage your boundary-setting 🔹 The power of reframing—presenting limits in a

❓ When a child is aggressive or hostile, should you still be their safe place? What about when that child becomes an adult—do you confront a narcissistic parent about their behavior? In this episode, we dive into the power of connection over correction and why children (and even adults) need emotional safety more than discipline.

This video clip is from Episode 63 of The Narcissism Decoder Podcast. When one partner is a narcissist and the other is constantly managing their emotions, therapy can feel like walking a tightrope. 🧠💔 How do we address the abuse while keeping the conversation productive? How do we stay within the window of tolerance without

❓ Ever felt like you’re being emotionally yanked back and forth in a relationship? One moment, you’re cherished—the next, you’re the source of all problems. In this episode, we explore the push-pull cycle in relationships with covert narcissists. This unpredictable pattern, often compared to Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, creates emotional instability that keeps victims