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In this powerful episode, Episode 79 and 80, we dive deep into the feelings of helplessness that can arise when you witness someone you care about self-destructing. We sit down with Jim, a father whose daughter is struggling with traits that seem to align with vulnerable narcissism. We explore the emotional cost of trying to […]

This video clip is from Episode 79 and 80 of The Narcissism Decoder Podcast. We dive deep into how reenactments of old emotional patterns can trap us in unproductive cycles. We sit down with Jim, a father whose daughter is struggling with traits that seem to align with vulnerable narcissism. We explore the emotional cost

Negotiating with a narcissist is unlike any other type of negotiation. In this episode, we discuss why you can’t apply normal rules when dealing with a narcissist. Understanding their need for control and their fear of losing power is key to navigating these high-stakes situations. Tune in to learn how to create leverage and protect

It’s not just heartbreak—it’s the unraveling of a fantasy. Leaving a narcissist isn’t like ending a regular relationship. You’re not just losing a person… you’re waking up from a deeply entrenched illusion. In this episode, we explore how the shared fantasy keeps people bonded to narcissists long after the relationship ends—and why healing is more

In narcissistic relationships, there’s always a cycle: the perfect, salvational voice that promises fulfillment, followed by the critical, devaluing voice. Dr. Masala dives into the emotional chaos that occurs when the fantasy is exposed for what it truly is, and how this creates a devastating internal conflict when trying to break free. 🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/ ✅

Dr. Masala explores how narcissistic relationships aren’t just about the person involved—they’re often about the fantasy and image we create. The external validation, the hope, and the dream of being with someone can become addictive. But what happens when the fantasy starts to crumble? Is it possible to separate reality from illusion? 🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/ ✅

Could the things we cling to for comfort actually be the anchors holding us back? In this episode, we explore how giving up destructive habits—like drinking or smoking—can free up not just time, but energy, vision, and purpose. It’s in the quiet after the habit that people often discover the desire to rise, to build,

This video clip is from Episode 64 of The Narcissism Decoder Podcast. Many believe narcissistic behaviors are fixed, but the truth is—change is possible. The key? Developing self-awareness. 🧠 Key insights from this episode: 🔹 Why self-reflection is the missing piece for narcissists. 🔹 How mentalization helps build empathy and awareness. 🔹 The role of

In this episode, we explore how trauma and the stories we cling to can keep us stuck. From numbing behaviors to refusing to let go of the past, there are clear patterns that block transformation. But there’s also hope—because when both people commit to deep inner work, something entirely new can emerge. 🎧 https://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast/ ✅

This video clip is from Episode 67 of The Narcissism Decoder Podcast. Could your desire to help actually be fueling a cycle of control and resentment? In some relationships, constant questioning and criticism — even when disguised as concern — can make a partner feel powerless and ashamed, pushing them toward self-destructive behaviors to reclaim