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How to take charge of your anxiety: a psychodynamic approach

In this episode, we explore the complex relationship between anxiety and shame stress. I highlight how shame stress often goes undetected and untreated in individuals dealing with narcissism. The manifestations […]

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Parenthood and parenting problems: establishing the bond

In this episode, we tackle common parental challenges like tantrums, defiance, and risky behavior. Traditional solutions often fall short, but by understanding the underlying causes—the impact of affective misattunement and […]

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Is it Depression…or Narcissist Deflation?

In this episode I explore the concept of narcissistic deflation and its potential misdiagnosis as depression. I highlight the importance of detecting and properly treating narcissistic deflation, which often goes […]

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Why Chaos and Conflict are NOT the Problem 14 Mazzella

Why do i think and act in such extremes?

In this episode, Dr. Mazzella explores techniques for overcoming ‘all or nothing’ thinking and behaviors. He addresses a listener’s question about healing fragmented selves. The conversation explores the concept of […]

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Thumbnail Chaos The Narc or the Borderlin 13 Mazzella

Are Dr. Mazella’s treatment strategies effective? listener questions & experiences

In this episode, Dr. Anthony Mazzella responds to listener questions, delving into topics such as coping with chaos in life and distinguishing between borderline and narcissistic traits. He explores a […]

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Why the need to create chaos & conflict?

In this episode, Dr. Anthony Mazzella explores why narcissists need to create chaos. He describes the manifestations of this behavior and delves into the psychological reasons behind it. Dr. Mazzella […]

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What is narcissistic rage: causes & treatment

In this episode of the Narcissism Decoder, we explore the intricate world of narcissistic rage by addressing three pivotal questions surrounding healthy and unhealthy expressions of anger. Drawing insights from […]

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Trauma bonding: how to break the addictive cycle

In this episode of the Narcissism Decoder podcast, the focus is on strategies to break the trauma bonding cycle. After highlighting the complexities of these relationships, I explore commonly suggested […]

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The trauma bond: a radically different perspective

In this episode of The Narcissism Decoder, we explore trauma bonding—a profound psychological pattern where individuals form intense attachments to manipulative and abusive relationships, despite recognizing the harm. Through a […]

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Thumbnail Repeating old Destructive Patterns 8 Mazzella

When the narcissist returns home: the unrelenting loop of despair

In this episode, we explore the cyclical dynamics of a person grappling with self-hatred and projection. The individual exhibits a perpetual loop of feeling judged and persecuted. Drawing from psychoanalytic […]

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