Ever notice how someone shifts from discomfort to cheerfulness too quickly? In this episode, Dr. Mazzella shares how avoiding difficult emotions—like disagreement or discomfort—can mask deeper narcissistic defenses. A compliment, a memory, or even a fight can become a defense against vulnerability. Mindfulness and containment become vital tools to spot these patterns and gently bring […]
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Why do so many people leave a narcissistic relationship… only to repeat it again? In this episode, Dr. Mazzella explains how unresolved emotional needs and internalized patterns from childhood can unconsciously pull survivors into familiar dynamics—even after they’ve left the toxic partner. Healing means more than leaving—it means facing the emotional blueprint we’re still carrying.
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What makes it so hard to walk away from someone who’s clearly hurting you? In this episode, Dr. Mazzella explains how narcissistic relationships mirror cult dynamics and scams—offering an illusion of salvation, bliss, and togetherness. Leaving means giving up not only the fantasy, but also confronting painful realities and internalized propaganda. The grief isn’t just
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What happens when a relationship feels too good to be true—yet slowly starts to suffocate your individuality? In this episode, Dr. Mazzella breaks down the illusion of blissful union often found in narcissistic relationships. It’s not just about love or closeness—it’s about unmet childhood needs, enmeshment, and the inability to tolerate separateness. Learn why constant
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Understanding Splitting in NPD: Why Self-Awareness Is So Difficult Read More »
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In this Episode 79 and 80, we dive into the complex balance between stepping back and offering support in relationships. 🏍️✨ We sit down with Jim, a father whose daughter is struggling with traits that seem to align with vulnerable narcissism. We explore the emotional cost of trying to stay connected when love, guilt, helplessness,
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In this Episode 79 and 80, we dive deep into understanding the difference between genuine requests and manipulative demands. We sit down with Jim, a father whose daughter is struggling with traits that seem to align with vulnerable narcissism. We explore the emotional cost of trying to stay connected when love, guilt, helplessness, and longing
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In this Episode 79 and 80, we explore the concept of containment and how it plays a vital role in relationships. 🧠 We sit down with Jim, a father whose daughter is struggling with traits that seem to align with vulnerable narcissism. We explore the emotional cost of trying to stay connected when love, guilt,
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