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In this episode, Dr. Anthony Mazzella introduces the concept of repetition compulsion — the unconscious drive to recreate early painful experiences, hoping this time the ending will be different. But without understanding the deeper emotional dynamics, we stay caught in the same suffering. ✅ Subscribe To My Channel For More Videos: https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder/?sub_confirmation=1 ✅ Important Links: […]

Often, what looks like frustration in adulthood—sighs, complaints, or subtle protests—isn’t really about the traffic, the silence, or the small conflict. It’s about the old, internalized voice of a parent that once made you feel guilty for wanting independence, success, or even simple recognition. These unconscious patterns don’t stay in the past. They resurface in

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When a parent carries covert narcissistic traits, your milestones—graduation, career, marriage, even simple choices—can trigger guilt instead of celebration. Their subtle criticisms, “worries,” or victimhood often make your growth feel dangerous. The unconscious logic becomes: “If I stay small, they stay stable. If I grow, I lose their love.” This episode explores how covert narcissistic

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In this video, a psychoanalyst dives into the secrets behind feeling empty. Discover valuable insights and tools to overcome this common struggle. Discover the secrets behind emptiness as an experienced psychoanalyst reveals the hidden truths in this eye-opening video. Gain insight into the root causes of feeling empty and how to address them. In this

In this episode of The Narcissism Decoder, Dr. Anthony Mazzella unpacks a painful paradox at the heart of healing narcissism: the very desire to be seen often collides with the terror of being exposed. Through a powerful clinical example, he explores how early wounds of shame, unmet needs, and impossible standards create a narcissistic bind—where

In this revealing video, top psychologist Dr. Anthony Mazzella discusses the shocking truth about grandiose self and the impact it can have on your mental health. Learn more about psychodynamic therapy and psychoanalysis from an expert in the field. In this episode of The Narcissism Decoder, Dr. Anthony Mazzella explores what happens after the illusion

When narcissistically inclined individuals act out of guilt, it can be hard to differentiate between reparative action and self-protection. In this episode, we discuss how Frank’s attempt to offer the delivery woman a drink could have been an effort to repair or a way to restore his own self-image after a moment of rage. 👉

Frank’s story about waiting for his grocery delivery shows how quickly guilt can spiral into shame. In this episode, we explore how negative self-talk can lead to feelings of worthlessness and self-loathing, shifting the focus from the behavior to the identity. 👉 Have you noticed when guilt turns into self-directed shame in your own experiences?