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In this episode, we dive deeper into the distinction between guilt and shame. While guilt involves feeling bad about something you did and wanting to make it right, shame makes you feel like you are bad, which often leads to self-blame and isolation. Understanding this difference is key to emotional healing. 👉 Have you ever […]

What happens when someone realizes they may never be as exceptional as they imagined? In this powerful episode, we explore what it looks like when narcissistic grandiosity crumbles—not with rage, but with grief. Through careful, compassionate containment, we uncover what it really means to feel ordinary, and still matter. ✅ Subscribe To My Channel For

In today’s episode, we explore the concept of “pushing away” difficult truths and how it only creates more problems in the long run. Whether it’s infertility, toxic relationships, or loss, avoiding these challenges doesn’t make them go away. Mindfulness and integration are key to facing painful realities and building a life that embraces the full

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What does real transformation look like beneath the grandiose shell? This episode takes you deep into the emotional layers of narcissistic healing—not just the behavior, but the deeper shifts in identity and defense. Through powerful clinical examples, we explore how grandiosity hides profound shame, and how slow, reflective work helps build a more authentic self.

Ever notice how someone shifts from discomfort to cheerfulness too quickly? In this episode, Dr. Mazzella shares how avoiding difficult emotions—like disagreement or discomfort—can mask deeper narcissistic defenses. A compliment, a memory, or even a fight can become a defense against vulnerability. Mindfulness and containment become vital tools to spot these patterns and gently bring

Why do so many people leave a narcissistic relationship… only to repeat it again? In this episode, Dr. Mazzella explains how unresolved emotional needs and internalized patterns from childhood can unconsciously pull survivors into familiar dynamics—even after they’ve left the toxic partner. Healing means more than leaving—it means facing the emotional blueprint we’re still carrying.

What makes it so hard to walk away from someone who’s clearly hurting you? In this episode, Dr. Mazzella explains how narcissistic relationships mirror cult dynamics and scams—offering an illusion of salvation, bliss, and togetherness. Leaving means giving up not only the fantasy, but also confronting painful realities and internalized propaganda. The grief isn’t just

What happens when a relationship feels too good to be true—yet slowly starts to suffocate your individuality? In this episode, Dr. Mazzella breaks down the illusion of blissful union often found in narcissistic relationships. It’s not just about love or closeness—it’s about unmet childhood needs, enmeshment, and the inability to tolerate separateness. Learn why constant

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