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Why Narcissistic Parenting Feels So Confusing

One of the most difficult realizations in therapy is understanding why a parent would undermine, sabotage, or distort a child’s development. Dr. Anthony Mazzella and Dr. Dan explore how narcissistic dynamics often reflect internal fragility, envy, and unmet emotional needs—rather than logic or care. 🎧 Listen to The Narcissism Decoder Podcast → http://www.drmazzella.com/the-narcissism-decoder-podcast ✅ Subscribe […]

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How to De-Escalate “High Conflict” (Without Giving In) | Epi 153

In today’s episode, we’re joined by Joe Dillon, a divorce mediation specialist, to break down what really drives high-conflict communication—and why small disagreements so quickly turn into major fights. We explore defensiveness, emotional projection, and practical strategies to de-escalate conflict without reinforcing unhealthy patterns. If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy

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Secrecy in Narcissism | What’s Really Being Hidden

What is the deeper psychological meaning of secrets? In this episode of The Narcissism Decoder, Dr. Anthony Mazzella examines secrecy through a psychodynamic lens. Rather than reducing secrets to simple deception or manipulation, this discussion explores how secrecy is often organized around shame, identity, and the preservation of a fragile self-structure. For narcissistically oriented personalities,

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Can you still be okay when the relationship falls apart?

In this clip from The Narcissism Decoder Podcast, Dr. Anthony Mazzella explores a powerful metaphor shared by his guest: learning to offer yourself the care, stability, and emotional holding you once sought from others. Healing here is not about isolation—it’s about developing an internal sense of safety and self-support. This conversation highlights how self-compassion becomes

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When No Contact Becomes the Boundary

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Mentalization: The Turning Point

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The Invisible Wound of Covert Narcissism

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