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In today’s episode, we’re joined by Joe Dillon, a divorce mediation specialist, to break down what really drives high-conflict communication—and why small disagreements so quickly turn into major fights. We explore defensiveness, emotional projection, and practical strategies to de-escalate conflict without reinforcing unhealthy patterns. If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy […]

What is the deeper psychological meaning of secrets? In this episode of The Narcissism Decoder, Dr. Anthony Mazzella examines secrecy through a psychodynamic lens. Rather than reducing secrets to simple deception or manipulation, this discussion explores how secrecy is often organized around shame, identity, and the preservation of a fragile self-structure. For narcissistically oriented personalities,

Why do we keep secrets — and what do they actually reveal about the inner world? In this episode of The Narcissism Decoder, Dr. Anthony Mazzella explores secrecy from a psychodynamic perspective. Rather than viewing secrets as purely moral failures or acts of manipulation, this discussion examines how secrecy is often tied to shame regulation,

In this clip from The Narcissism Decoder Podcast, Dr. Anthony Mazzella explores a powerful metaphor shared by his guest: learning to offer yourself the care, stability, and emotional holding you once sought from others. Healing here is not about isolation—it’s about developing an internal sense of safety and self-support. This conversation highlights how self-compassion becomes

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This clip reveals how early family dynamics can train someone to survive through compliance, obedience, and emotional self-erasure. Dr. Anthony Mazzella explores how real experiences of abandonment shape a nervous system that prioritizes keeping the system stable at all costs—even when it means silencing the self. In adulthood, this survival strategy can quietly recreate itself

This clip explores how vulnerability isn’t about weakness, but about timing, loss, identity shifts, and emotional exhaustion. Dr. Anthony Mazzella and Dr. Kerry unpack how grief, burnout, and unmet emotional needs can quietly shape who we feel drawn to—often before we realize it. The conversation highlights how charm, certainty, and “being chosen” can feel stabilizing